Last updated: 20 October 2009

There is a clear distinction between an arranged marriage and a forced marriage.  An arranged marriage is where the families of both spouses take a leading role in choosing the marriage partner but the choice whether or not to accept the arrangement remains with the couple.  A forced marriage is defined as  “a marriage conducted without the valid consent of both parties where duress (emotional pressure in addition to physical abuse) is a factor.” 

(A choice by right – June 2000)

There are no religious justifications for forced marriages and it is condemned by all major faiths with consent being a prerequisite of Hindu, Sikh, Jewish, Muslim and Christian marriages.

The Forced Marriage Unit states that it is:

• An abuse of human rights

• A form of child abuse

• A form of domestic violence

• An act which is not upheld by the teachings of any religion

• An act which is very different from the successful practice of arranged marriages

• A form of contemporary slavery, as recognised by the United Nations in June 2005

Why do they happen?

• Controlling unwanted behaviour and sexuality, particularly that of women, and preventing 'unsuitable’ relationships

• Peer group or family pressure

• Protecting perceived cultural or religious ideals which can often be misguided

• Attempting to strengthen family links

• Family honour or long-standing family commitments

• Ensuring land remains within the family

• Assisting claims for residence and citizenship

• Providing a carer for a disabled family member/reducing the ‘stigma’ of disability

Approximately 85% of forced marriages have a woman as the victim, and 15% men.  However it is still under reported.  

If you are being, or have been, forced into marrying someone or know of someone who is, then it is important to get the right advice.  The Forced Marriage Unit can give advice and support.  They can be contacted on 020 7008 0151 or email fmu@fco.gov.uk  

If it is an emergency dial 999.  They will not contact your family